我們结婚了@6年

2014年12月5日, 星期五。我們结婚六年了。有起起落落，一路走来不容易。感恩我們一起努力，一起维持我們的婚姻、感情。

Looking forward to more years of togetherness, happiness.. Love you, 老公 ♥♡

Love you, 老公。♥♡

結婚六個月又十八天嘍!!

日子一天一天地過..... 有開心也有不開心.... 忙著工作, 忙著應付兩個家.... 真的不容易..... 時間不夠用啊!!

昨晚, 老公提議再看我們結婚的"Day and Evening Highlights video", "Photo Montage" & "Way back into Love MTV". 半年後從看, 想起拍攝的情景, 過程, 還是很好玩, 好笑.... 我們最愛 "Photo Montage". 它有著我們兒時的相片, 成長的歲月, 一直到我們相識, 相愛, 結婚的相片.... 聽著那首"I've been waiting for you", 好感動.... 想到當天結婚的情景, 美麗的婚紗, 紅"Kua", 髮型, 首飾與親戚朋友的祝福, 真的好感激我有機會體驗這一切, 屬於我們的一天.....

這些日子真的要感謝老公的支持與體諒, 家婆的明白與大方.....

老公說我們買了自己的家後, 我就能明白他工作辛苦, 一切都是為了我們的家, 一起建立的幸福.... 我知道他承受著非一般的壓力, 很努力.... 我想我們都要多體諒, 明白.... 一起努力 .... 張望未來! (",)

待嫁心情 ...

时光飞逝。。。 再多三个星期，我就告别单身，荣升为邓太太了。。

感觉好奇妙。。

想想即将要离开与妈妈，妹妹 和弟弟一起住的屋子，就有一点不舍。。 虽然结婚后还是会回家，但是还是不一样了。

要同一个时间学习做妻子与媳妇，好像不容易。。 开始有点害怕了。

最近为了筹备，非常忙。。。 现在的我，是又期待婚礼的来临，又担心一切会不会顺利。。。
常听说待嫁心情总是这样，现在终于明白了。

老公告诉我一定要放轻松， 一切顺其自然。。我会提醒自己。。。

希望那天顺顺利利吧！！我也要努力适应婚后生活。。。

Photo shoot and Food tasting ...

Time flies, countdown 3 months to my wedding day....

Last Monday, we had our indoor and outdoor photo shoot. I was a little worried about the weather as it was raining for the whole of previous week. But have to tell myself just let nature takes its own course.... The worst thing that can happen is to do the outdoor shoot another day and top up another $80 for the make up...

The weather was good when we set off to the bridal shop. The radio weather report said that there will only be rain on the northern and western part of Singapore. Wilvin and I were relieved. While doing the indoor shoot, it started to drizzle. Our photographer, Ah Kit then used his handphone to check the weather and it showed that there will be showers everywhere in Singapore. He is also kind of worried as his schedule is packed for the entire month. But we just talked among ourselves that leave it to God...Just see what happens after we finish the indoor shoot....

Around 3 pm, Wilvin went to buy lunch while I continued with my hairdo... It was sunny! We were relieved again.... We had six costumes to change in total for the indoor and we finished the shoot around 5 pm... We packed up and ready to leave the studio for outdoor shoot.

We went to Neil Road for some shots of Perenakan houses and proceed to Botanical Gardens for greenery shots. While doing the last shot, it started to drizzle again... Hahaha... We then drove to Sentosa, Tanjong beach for beach and sunset shots. The weather is perfect! I counted and there were another 8 couples there! We finished at about 7 pm and it is getting dark. Ah Kit suggested that we can go to Clarke Quay, near Riverside Point for some night shots. In the end, we went to 4 places...

It was a fun day... Ah Kit made us laugh so much and we really enjoyed the shoot... Just hope that the photographs will turn out well... We were also lucky to met up with the kids of the bridal shop's boss, Fion & Trevin. It is the one week Sept school holiday. After we had breakfast at Toastbox Bugis, we went to the bridal shop. We were still early and we played with them. They then followed us to the studio. We brought our care bears soft toys along for the shoot. There were 7 of them...Hee! They played with them and accompany me during my make up and hairdo... So sweet of Fion & Trevin...

The food tasting was held last Friday at Traders Hotel. The food was served according to the menu we had chosen earlier and we had to provide our comments for each dish. Overall it was good... We were so full after we complete the whole course... Hope the food will be as good on actual day.... : )

~ 婚姻物语 ~

最近一直在想有多少人了解婚姻的含义。。。

与我一起长大的表哥做了离婚的决定。想起去年我出席了他的婚礼，也在部落格写下我对他们的祝福。。

他已经挣扎了四个月，无法挽回所以忍痛放弃。。看到他瘦了那么多，很心痛。听了一切所发生的事，我真的无法想象女人变了心是那么的可怕。从相识到相爱，一直到结为夫妻，那么多年的感情，为什么不珍惜呢？最可怕的是妻子的父母竟然认为这是平常的，没什么大不了。。

曾经在“ 我报”读到结婚周年纪念名称。。结婚一周年称为纸婚，最初结合薄如纸，要小心保护。婚姻的确需要保护，也需要用真心去经营。也常常听人家说能结为夫妻是一种很难得的缘分，要懂得珍惜。。。

缘分是不是有期限的? 还是我们已经不懂得珍惜得来不易的缘分，感情？

** Beautiful Wedding **

Hmmm, finally my first blog of the year ....... A good start to the new year ..... kekekeke

It was a busy busy last Saturday as it was my cousin's big day. Both he and his better half are starting a new journey together after almost 6 years of courtship. All of us gathered at his house at 8am in the morning ... anxiously waiting for him to "fetch" the bride over. Everyone was excited as he is the first in our generation to marry .... My grandparents (maternal side) have 13 grandchildren and it was so wonderful that they can still see their oldest grandchildren getting married .....

One cute tradition that I learned was that everyone needs to hide in the room and are not allowed to wait in the living room for the couple. They have to call back to the house when they are reaching and all of us actually run into the bedrooms! Only when they step into the house before we are "allowed" to be out of the bedrooms. They say this is to avoid those that have not so good luck falling sick if they meet the couple face to face when they step into the house!! Newly weds have the most luck as compared to anybody .... Old grandmother myth .... But we just did what we are told! Haha

One of the most touching scene is when my uncle went to the nursing home to fetch my grandpa over. He had stroke for several years and could not really recognise everyone but when he saw my cousin and his wife, he started to cry. Although we didn't really know what his thoughts are, we felt that he must be so happy to see that his eldest grandson is married now. Most of us had tears in our eyes too ....... 真的好感动

After the tea ceremony, all of went back home to prepare for the church wedding in the afternoon. I had to reach the church early to help out at the reception. This is challenging as they have 350 guests! I am the only one from our side to help out. The bride's cousin and friend help out too. Ehhh, it was not really a good reception. There were hicupps right from the start ..... First, the table was too small. The 2 girls were complaining. There is no space to place the boxes for the ang pows. We had to put them on chairs behind us. So we ended up standing .... The guest lists were not done up properly .... Many of the guests' names were not on it. We had to write them down manually ..... To me, it was really disoriented ..... But in the end, we managed to finish "taking attendance" but was a bit late. Finally, I could go back to the ceremony and witness the bride walking down the aisle. My boyfriend booked the best seat for me ... I could view the whole ceremony clearly and took many beautiful pictures ..... Yeah !!!

When the bride walked down the aisle, I could see tears welling up in her eyes ..... another touching scene .... She was so beautiful!! The priest joked that they could finally memorised their vows .... It was actually a long one .... But I do agree with the priest ... The vows are not just meant to be memorised for only that day. It must be practised wholeheartedly .... Love is unconditional ..... So true !!

Overall, it was still a beautiful wedding despite small hiccups. I am very happy for my cousin. We are of the same age and we grew up together .... Can still remember those days that we played together .... We were the only 2 grandchildren back then ...... Time really flies ....

Best wishes to you, Ah Boy and Jocelyn !!!!